December 27, 2008

热脸烫冷屁股

我喜欢中六时的生活,它可说是仅次于大学生活,在我人生里最愉快的。中六的我把从前自闭的包袱抛开,开始试着打开心房,接受其他人,结交新朋友。那时的我不像从前那样,脑袋里只装着“把书读好”这四个字。在那短短两年的中六,缘分的安排下,让我有了自己的gang,我们六位因此成为好朋友,还自称为“桃谷六仙”。原因,我们就好像《笑傲江湖》里的“桃谷六仙”一样那么疯疯癫癫,经常在班上自讲自笑,好像“神经病”。中六生活也许对很多来讲是人生梦魇, 但是它对我来说是畅快的。也许是因为愉快的读书环境, 我STPM的成绩比起SPM的成绩来得好很多。

所以,我很珍惜这段友谊。虽然大家现在都有各自的发展,但是只要有任何公共假日,有回来居銮,我都希望大家能够出来聚一聚,了解彼此的近况。这么多年来,我跟心都是那根线,穿梭在我们六人之间。原因是不想友情随着时间而慢慢地淡化。在此也感谢心的帮忙安排与联络。

在一群朋友内,每个人扮演的角色都不一样。大致上分为两组:主动和被动。主动的通常会联络大家,为大家安排节目。至于那些被动的,经常都会“等着被通知”,没有叫到就继续passive;有叫到也不一定会出现。最糟糕的是,连回复要不要参与都没有,好像“人间蒸发”似的!其实,要经营一段友情,每一位成员都有责任,单靠一方面的努力和付出是不够的。

前几天,让我碰到人间蒸发已久的华,第一件事就是质问他“死”去那里了,近一年没他的消息。不是没联络,而是他从不回复我们任何一封不管是简讯或电邮都好!他还很敷衍地以“很忙”和“从来不回简讯”为理由来回答我。一点抱歉或愧疚心都没有!这样的答复的确令人失望,犹如不在乎这段友谊。所以,有时觉得自己干嘛花费心思安排节目、联络这个那个的,最后也只是换来人家的“不在乎”!

P/S: 桃谷六仙成员 - 敏、莹、华、云、吉、心

December 25, 2008

Enjoyable Christmas Party on 23rd Nov

In conjunction with Christmas and New Year festivals, Ivy's birthday celebration and Dr. Soh's farewell, the house owner Hanizah suggested to have a party in her house. The invitation has been sent out a few weeks before the festival in order to suit the most every attendees' availability. At last, the date was set on 23rd Nov, due to two reasons, ie. everyone is available on that night; 2nd, "purposely" to have the same date as Jie-jie P's open house, so that we have a strong reason not to attend that open house. Hahahaha.....


From top left: Ivy, Yik Jia, Dr. Soh, Fei Fei and Lim Yee
From bottom left: Sugan, me, Ser and Ruey Mond, and Hanizah


11 people is in the invitation list. Finally, 10 people turned up, Kwa was unfortunately sick that day. The tantalizing main course include "nasi kerabu", satay from "Kak Esah", "Island Supreme" flavoured pizza and "Deli-Wings" from Pizza-Hut as well as fruit salad as appetizer. As for dessert, we had "longan + natta de coco" jelly prepared by Ivy. As usual, Sugan was the drink mixer, she prepared ice-lemon tea for us. Everyone had a very filling dinner until satay and pizza could not be finished!

Ivy's 25th birthday celebration

Not forgetting, the Christmas tree in Hanizah's house. This tree is DEFINITELY bigger than the one in our office which is bought by the STINGIEST mat salleh boss! Before the dinner starts, the christmas tree was well-decorated by Fei Fei and Dr. Soh with colour papers, but too bad, the tree was not decorated with lights. After the dinner and cleaning the kitchen, we all sat in the living room and the "gossiping" session was formally started! We had a wonderful session with the "nice story" shooting those stingy mat sallehs in the company. Marvelous gossips from everyone! Good and keep it up, guys! hahahaha....


This Christmas tree is taller than the one in Site Office

To me, I really enjoyed that night very much. I would like to express my gratitude to all the members involved. I can say the night was superb!

Thanks to Hanizah for organising the party;
Thanks to Lim Yee for joining the party and welcome you as well;
Thanks to Soh and Fei Fei for the decoration with limited sources;
Thanks to Yik Jia for preparing the fruit salad;
Thanks to Ivy for igniting the HOT topics to 'kenakan' me;
Thanks to Ser for stirring up the topics as merry as it can be;
Thanks to Ruey Mond for keeping up the topics' momentum;
Thanks to Sugan for 'kenakan' Ser habis-habis!!
Thanks to myself for becoming the centre of bombardment....

Looking forward to the next gathering.....